Coerced Orgasm And Cock Control

Coerced orgasm and cock control are wonderful ways for an American Mistress to exercise her control and dominance over her prey. It’s a very real symbol of a woman taking charge of a man, since the penis tends to be considered the seat of masculinity. Just thumb through a romance novel. A common euphemism for the penis is “manhood.” If that’s not a sign that a man’s cock is viewed as a symbol for his masculinity, I don’t know what is!

Generally, my cock control ideas revolve around my telling a man when he can cum and when he can’t. I sometimes extend this to masturbation control as well, though I tend to let him masturbate whenever he wants, even when he’s on orgasm restriction. I mean, if he wants to make it harder for himself, then who am I to stop him? I usually only use masturbation control when a man proves to me that he simply can’t be trusted to control himself. In extreme cases, I’ve even had to use male chastity, but that only happens once in a blue moon.

Most of the time, though, I just put them on orgasm control where they have to obtain my permission to have an orgasm.

Mistress Loves Teasing Men On Orgasm Control

Perhaps it’s not very fair of me to do this to these boys, but life in general is not fair. One of the things I love to do with men who are being denied orgasm is to tease them. And I’m not talking about your normal tease and denial games, either. I like to tease them into having an orgasm, even when they aren’t supposed to, so that I can punish them for it later!

No, it probably isn’t fair of me to do that to them…but it’s so much fun!

How does it work? Well, first of all, you have to remember that cock control doesn’t just mean orgasm control. It also includes things like masturbation instructions. So if I have control of a man’s cock, I can tell him how, when, where, and how long to masturbate. All it takes is lots of teasing and jerk-off instructions, and he’ll cum for me, even if he’s trying desperately to hold it back, so as not to violate my “No cumming” rule.

And that, boys, is what we call a coerced orgasm!

Oh, yes, it’s awfully diabolical, but it’s incredibly exciting. Even if the man in question pretends he doesn’t enjoy it, secretly, he does. That’s the way almost all men’s naughty “coerced” fantasies of any sort work.

Punishing The Naughty Rule-Breaker With More Orgasm Denial

At first, the man will be really excited. He got to cum when he thought he was being denied! But reality sinks in after I give him a few seconds to recover and then ask, “Did I give you permission to cum?” The look on guy’s face when that happens (and he realizes he’s broken the rules and is in big trouble) is priceless!

I leave him hanging for a few minutes after that, ostensibly to “think about his behavior,” but mostly to let him fabricate in his mind all kinds of horrible things that might happen to him. I figure that if I’m going to be completely unfair up until this point, then why not throw in a little mindfuckery as well?

Usually, the “punishment” isn’t anything too bad. Perhaps I’ll use it as an excuse to give him a spanking or to do some more tease and denial, but it’s rarely anything more complex or harsh than that. It’s mostly a way to keep playing the game.

Sometimes, I change it up a little and let a coerced orgasm end in a ruined orgasm instead of a fulfilling one. That helps to keep men on their toes. It also increases their dismay when they realize they’ve broken the “No cumming without permission” rule. It’s one thing to get some enjoyment out of breaking the rules. It’s another thing entirely to break the rules with a completely unsatisfying orgasm.

Like I said, it’s not fair, but it’s fun. Of course, life in general with me is like that: Not always fair, but always, always fun and exciting!