The “Role” Of Roleplay In Femdom Phone Sex
Think for a moment, if you will, about what kind of mental image the phrase “roleplay phone sex” conjures up in your mind as it pertains to femdom phone sex. Does it make you think of something fun and sexy or something boring and maybe even *gasp* vanilla?
If it’s the former, you’re definitely on the right track. If it’s the latter, allow me to attempt to change your mind for a moment.
Roleplay is, in fact, a staple of femdom phone sex. This, however, does not have to mean that it’s stale or dull. Roleplay is the backbone of most phone fantasies, even if the Mistress and her call do not come right out and say, “We’re going to roleplay today!”
Think about the times you’ve played with an American phone sex Mistress. She didn’t just tell you “I’m doing this, this, and this to you,” did she? Of course not! That would make for a very yawn-worthy fantasy. Instead, she created an entire scenario and, in effect, painted a picture with words that appealed to both of you. That’s exactly what roleplay is!
Erotic Roleplaying Is Sexy Storytelling
That’s right, gentlemen. An effective phone sex Mistress is also a skilled roleplay and sexy storyteller.
You see, the truly great phone sex Mistresses out there don’t have scripts, and they don’t play out every man’s fantasy by rote. Instead, they consult with the man in question to find a way to bring their own fantasies in line with his. And that’s when the fun really begins!
Let’s try a more in-depth exploration of this idea, shall we? Imagine that you have a foot fetish. Now, what is it that turns you on about feet? Is it the way they look? The way they smell? The way they taste? The way they feel against your body? Or is it something else?
Now, try to imagine a foot fetish fantasy that didn’t incorporate any of those things. It wouldn’t be very exciting, would it?
Roleplay Sets The Stage For Your Femdom Phone Sex Fantasy
But, on the other hand, what if your Mistress wove an intricate story that appealed to all of your senses? Imagine if she told you an erotic story like this:
“You walk in the room, and you see your Femdom Mistress sitting on the sofa with my legs crossed. I’m dressed in a black pencil skirt, a white silk button-down blouse tucked into my skirt, nude stockings, and black pumps with four-inch heels. You try to take in the sexy image in front of you as discreetly as you can, so as not to offend me by gawking.
“I tell you to take off your clothes and kneel in front of me like a good slave. I know you love CFNM, don’t you, my pet?”
She’ll pause in the crafting of this story to give you a chance to answer her questions and to input some things of your own. Then, she’ll continue on, still stopping every now and then for your questions, comments, etc.
“Once you’re down on your knees, I hold my foot out in front of your face, directing you to remove my shoe. You take it off slowly, gently, so you’re sure not to hurt me. After you set that shoe down, I hold my other foot up for you to remove its shoe as well. After you’ve taken both shoes off, I say, ‘Kiss my feet, pet.’
“You comply, of course. It’s not in your nature to tell me no. You kiss the tops of my feet, reveling in the womanly scent of them and of the feel of the stockings against your lips. Then, I command you to remove my stockings, which you do, careful not to put a run in them.
“Once the stockings are gone, I point to the floor. You lie down at my feet like a good boy. Then, I place one of my bare feet directly on your face. As you begin to worship my feet, you feel your cock hardening like never before.”
Even if you’re not a foot fetishist, you’re probably eager to see how that fantasy ends! And that, gentlemen, is why roleplay is so important in a session with an American phone sex Mistress.