A Study Of Scarlet: Infidelity and The Hot Wife Fantasy

Many men are drawn to the cheating wife or hot wife story; often these men are conflicted and confused by their feelings of arousal over something so…”distasteful”! This is actually a very common fantasy that is asked to be roleplayed during a phone sex session. In these very elaborate roleplay scenarios, the American phone sex Mistress is asked to play the role of the cheating wife.

The problem with the stereotype of the cheating wife is that these women are often portrayed as women with full-blown narcissistic personality disorders OR as if they are so weak and spineless that one can only wonder how it is that they exist in the world. They can’t really; they only exist in the fantasizers’ testosterone-overdosed minds.

Cheating is really not all that uncommon if we are honest. I would be willing to bet that 99% of all people who cheat are, in fact, not wacko or abnormal; they are probably very normal people, facing normal daily situations and temptations. They are real people with real problems. I would even be willing to say it.s not even always a sign of dislike for their current partner; sometimes, it’s something much more or much less than that. It might have been but a fleeting moment in time.

Why Does the Hot Wife Cheat?

Cheating can happen among couples of all types–couples where both partners are as emotionally strong as the other is. Cheating and adultery is driven by passion and has to do with love, anger, hate, and, of course, lust. Every American phone sex Mistress knows that cheating is often born of something that was once very simple and innocent.

Cheating wife scenarios come from life-changing events that happen when we least expect them. These moments come when we are the most relaxed and comfortable, right when we feel the most secure. Nothing ever ends the way that we planned, even if they do end successfully. These changes come against our expectations, which is what inherently makes the cheating wife fetish so complex. An American Mistress understands the deep psychology of cheating and will use that knowledge to her, and your, benefit during such a scenario.

In some cheating wife scenarios, it is as simple as catching one’s wife stripping at a bachelor party and, instead of stopping it, sitting back watching without her knowledge as she captivates her audience of single and married men with her sexy and arousing body! In some cases, though, it would go much further, wouldn’t it? You would stay hidden as you watched her start to pleasure the soon-to-be newly-wed bachelor for his one last thrill. He probably has no idea that she is even married, but you definitely do as you watch quietly, almost holding your breath.

Becoming A Cuckold Husband

This may, of course, lead to you eventually becoming a cuckold husband. A cuckold fetishist derives a sense of sexual arousal from seeing his lover with another sexual partner. This is often considered to be just an extension of the cheating wife fetish. They are similar in many ways, but have many differences also. Cuckolding is not always as it seems; often the husband will still be actively fucking his wife, but only after she has be properly pleased by her first lover. The husband is second to the first lover at all times.

Both the cheating wife scenario and the cuckolding scenario are forms of power exchange; one is much more obvious to both parties, where as the other is much more private. Both the man and the woman are going to be receiving pleasure from these scenarios, but in different ways, of course. The woman is aroused by the idea of entering into a new and exciting sexual relationship with a new partner, while the man is being driven by the sexual arousal of watching his wife with another, either known to her or unknown.

Adrenaline plays a large factor in these scenarios, causing both parties to be aware of every sensation that they are experiencing. There is nothing wrong with letting go of inhibitions and allowing oneself to experience true pleasure. Every phone sex Mistress knows the importance of completely letting go of oneself so that you may finally know what it means to be pleased 100% sexually; no holding back, no regrets. Let go of your inhibitions and your worries so that you may allow yourself to indulge in your secret fantasies and fetishes.