For those of you who have never experienced phone sex with American Mistresses, it may be tempting to think that it’s no big deal. That line of thinking, however, would be a mistake.
“But what’s so different about an American Mistress?” you may be asking. After all, the only difference between her and a British Mistress or an Australian Mistress or whatever is the accent, correct?
Oh, no. Absolutely not.
You often hear BDSM practitioners talking about the “European” style of domination. But you never hear anyone talking about an “American” style, do you? Does that mean that Americans don’t have a particular style of BDSM, or does it just mean that no one has been able to pinpoint it yet?
It’s more a matter of people not being able to pin a specific “style” on American Mistresses. When you hear people talk about German BDSM, for example, you think of strict bondage and lots of corporal punishment. When you hear people mention Japanese BDSM, you think of bizarre fetishes and Fembots.
There’s no American style of BDSM because America has never been a terribly cohesive place. While many people refer to America as a “melting pot,” it’s really more accurate to call it a fruit salad of sorts. Many different people and cultures are blended together in America, and they tend to retain their own identities and cultures while still adding their very own flavor to the “salad” as a whole.
So it is with American Mistresses and BDSM.
There is no real American flavor of BDSM, but that works in your favor. You’ll be able to find any sort of lady you want to play with. They won’t all be from the same “school” of thought, and they won’t all act in the same “American” manner when it comes to dominating a man. You can be sure that you’ll find strict Mistresses, sensual Mistresses, and every kind of Mistress in between when you call for American Mistress phone sex. The type of lady you’ll speak with depends entirely upon your preferences, rather than some sort of school of BDSM thought that’s prevalent amongst all the kinky practitioners in the country!
American Mistresses all want two things: They want to have their orders obeyed, and they want slaves who are happy to obey them. Can you handle those two things? Then, congratulations, you’re ready for an American Mistress!
If you’ve decided that you want to submit to an American Mistress, then what do you need to do? Well, the first thing you should do is be honest with yourself about you’re looking for, what your needs are, and what kind of Mistress will suit you best. If you’re not sure, then you can always read the “Choosing The Right Mistress” essay. It’s an excellent source of advice for the inexperienced and uncertain.
Once you’ve selected the Mistress for you, then it’s time to let her know the kinds of things you’re interested in. Make sure that you’re very honest about this, as this is the kind of thing that can make or break your phone sex call. Then, you can relax and enjoy yourself because from there on out, the only thing you have to do is answer your Mistress’s questions and follow her instructions!
This is when you will realize that what’s so different about American Mistresses is their…differences! There are so many different kinds of American Mistresses, and the philosophy of American BDSM seems to be “Do what feels good.” There is no real overarching belief system amongst American Mistresses and their submissives outside of the idea that everyone should do what is best for himself or herself.
Some men might find it disconcerting that he can’t know what to expect from any given American Mistress before he calls her, but others will definitely find it an exciting challenge. If you are the type of man who loves delving into things, trying new experiences, and approaching old things from totally new perspectives, then some play time with an American Mistress may be just what you are looking for. If nothing else, you’ll learn to look at thing with a completely different eye after you have spent some time serving a beautiful American Mistress!